Relationship Theory

Ok, I know i said maybe, but I've decided I will... (besides ppl like the juicy stuff anyway)

Here's my latest theory on relationships:
If it starts too fast, it will end even faster....

Think about that,

I was conversing with a close personal friend and she so eloquently said the same thing in her own words. I was like, hmm that was deep.

Lets talk,

So you meet someone and there's a mutual interest. You go on a couple of dates and hit it off very well. Let's stop here, This means absolutely nothing! (yes I said it)
Children get new Xmas toys every year, if they really loved the ones the year before there would be no need for new ones every year would there.... It's just something new and exciting in your life. Granted those initial dates do tell whether or not you should continue to build something, but let's not jump the gun. Now where many relationships go wrong is exactly at this point. This is the point where many relationships start. Unfortunately the representatives of people often do not remain for the duration of the relationship. Usually around the time when they depart is when the relationship is about to come to an end.
I'll call this part, meeting the truth. It's funny how people are shocked to meet the true person they're dating. "My how you've changed" may be a phrase used...
So you meet your true partner and you hate them, and you end up alone again. Then you repeat the cycle again, that's the killer part. You know why many of the major corporations are successful? They are good at producing a consistent product and can perform successful things over and over again. You know why you're still single? cuz you're good at the cycle that I just described... time to try a new one!

Ok now that I've tore you down, it's time to build you back up... can't just leave ya damaged.
Here's what ya do:
You meet someone you like, great job....
You have a mutual likeness for each, great
Now all you need to do is begin dating, and find out everything you can during this dating period and after that you can decide whether or not you want to proceed to the next step or not.

Now don't get me wrong, there are many many many other factors that contribute to this cycle, but I think one of the major sources is the two parties just getting something other than what they expected.

But this is just my theory, what do you think?