ok let's talk some more; Titles Gone Bad

Ok, I just have a lot on my mind tonight,

Let's talk about relationships,

So.............. let's talk in hypothetical.......

Well scratch that, what is it with this psychological aspect of the "title". I often hear alot of stories about people dating and it goes soooo well and they end up putting a title on the relationship and boom, downhill from there. Hmm, let's think about it, wait let's flip that, then you have those where one party is, well both parties are interested, but.... always that but, lol... one person is just getting over someone or not ready or whatever the case may be... however they are still willing to just chill, have fun, hang out talk, you know do all the same things, just without being exclusive... ok, now let's think.... What actually changes in the relationship, besides the title??? I mean, you could say the whole seeing other people thing would stop, but if the couple really is into each other neither of them prob were seeing other people anyhow... So again, what changes besides the title? Somebody tell me, cuz it's all psychological to me, through a title on it and it goes wrong! Is it that more is expected once that title is issued... if that's the case then that's just a classic set up for failure then. How can you expect more just all of a sudden, If you're not getting all you expect out of a relationship before the title, 10 times out of 10, it's not gonna change once a title is placed.... doesn't work like that.... so ppl, before you put out that title, please make sure you have everything you expect. and maybe, just maybe we can change the stigma that goes along with Titles killing relationships!

goodnight,